I sometimes think that a guy/boyfriend is like dessert.
After a full and nice meal, you don’t really feel like dessert. You don’t really have the space for any more food.
After a decent meal, you feel like you could make good use of a delicious chocolate cake, but if it isn’t within your reach, then you just get by and make without.
Of course, sometimes, you can suddenly crave for a good cheesecake out of the blues. But most of the time, truly enjoyable desserts are hard to get by within your immediate reach and you know it won’t kill you so you stride along.